How Early Is Too Early

....For sex that is. The never ending question of when do you finally decide its time to get the deed done with a guy. Whether girls like to admit it or not they love sex just as much as guys. So the most common excuse is "well I want him to respect me." So at this point is sex being used as a weapon to manipulate a relationship? Another reason is "If we have sex too early we have nothing to look forward to" Quite possibly. But on the other hand if you do the deed early you'll find out if a wait was even worth it? haha. Sometimes I think sex becomes a bigger issues than what it actually is. I mean if have a mans n dem and your a sexually free spirited person then have fun, of course be responsible at the same time but honestly there's no law book on how relationships work (no matter how many books Steve Harvey writes). Everybody is different so this debate will forever live.